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In Need of Help

Only Want The Best started this conversation

    In desperate need of help! For the past two years I have been having problems out of my now 14yr old son.  My older son was shot five times because, my 14yr old had a charlie horse and kicked dirt on a young man's pants while they were at a park. Since then he has been acting out. I have have went above and beyond trying to get help and conseling for him. He was on the honor role and started receiving failing grades because he refused to gto school. I have went as far as filing an ungovernable petition to have him court ordered to go to school, stay from certain places and so-called friends. As a mother of four young men I try to be firm, but fair. My requirements of my children are simple, go to school, keep your room clean, don't use drugs and Be a Something and Somebody instead of a Nothing and Nobody! On March 04, 2008 my 14 year old son was home after refusing to go to school. I then questioned him about being home once again. He then started yelling at me, saying that "he hate me", and telling me that "he will Knock me out"! I  threw a paint brush at him and  he balled up his fist and said that, "he will knock me out".After being threatned by my on child I called 911 and  I waited on the police.Once the police arrived one of the officers said that , "as a mother you have every right to discipline your children especially if they are rude and disrespectful". The officers then left and a female officer returned to tell me that she was training the other officer and he was wrong and that "I did not have a right to discipline". I was on the phone with my mother and I was telling her what the officer said. I explained to her that I work everyday and that My Children Must Abide By The Rules. She then told me to hang up the phone, but she never read me my rights or told me that she was placing me under arrest. I told her that "I did not do anything wrong". She then grabbed my arm and yelled for another officer, he came in and stomped on my foot and slapped me on my neck pulling me down the stairs. After falling down the stairs I was told if I did not put my hands behind my back they was going to taser me. They took me to the police station, although they never read me my rights. I told them that I needed medical care because I had no feeling in my toes and they were bleeding. I was taken to the hospital, once examined I had to get stitches in one of my toes and the other one was broken. I was then taken to PBSO Jail and booked on domestic battery on my son who was very disrespectful to me. Now I am on a leave from my job, because once release I was seen by two other doctors who refused to let me work due to foot, shoulder and lower back injuries I sustained from the Officers using excessive force.  All I want to do is be the best mother to my children. It's so much crime and gang activity where we live and I don't  want my kids to become apart of that. I am in need of some financial help or resources. If you can Help me please send the prayers,financial assistance or resource information to  Juanetta Lewis 182 East 28th Street Riviera Beach, Florida 33404 or email me at Lewis2davis@aol.com .Thank you in advance, pray for me and God Bless You!

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Audrey05

I'm sending warm luv I know oh so well how you feel I'm going through some stuff with my son as well it has gotten to the point that I have to make some drastic decisions but what I want to say to you is never get tired of doing the right thing and always know that our heavenly father arms is always around you just believe that things will get better and hold on to that I have to do that all day every with knowing our heavenly father hears my cry, keep intouch with me, I pray for you, you pray for me.

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Only Want The Best
 in response to Linne...   

I was sitting here and I decided to email you and give you some words of comfort since I have not heard for you last. My prayers are that the Lord will continue to give you guidance and make a strong hold over your life and Satan won't even have a opportunity to destroy. The Lord always allow certain obstacles to happen so that we never forget that he is always in control.

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Only Want The Best
 in response to mack79...   Hello! Just wanted to see how things are working out for you. I pray that all is well and everything that you are going through God will protect and mend so that youcan move steps forward.
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Only Want The Best

I appreciate your concerns and these days we must put our trust in God and know that faith is the substance of things not seen and that God is the head of all our trials & tribulations. Children need to understand that for every action there is a consequence.

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Linne

Hi, I read and I cryed..Not much help,But I hunderstand.I am Heading that way myself with my step child who refuses to eat.....Is 12 and 55 lbs,He already gives me lip at every oportunities, not doig what he's told  and not chy about it at all.He just tells me off, he won't do it!! My counslers are telling me to be more patient!!!All I want to do is smack his foul mounth.

But I will tell you that it takes two people to fight,and that it maybe time for a new approch...get some rest,,if you can,,remember you love him(right back at me!!)

 good luck

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Resign or Be Terminated
 in response to Resign or Be Terminated...   

 Thank you for your prayers!

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Resign or Be Terminated
  I am praying for you and your situation and I wish I could help you, but unfortunately my financial situation is similar to yours. Although we face adversity the outcome will be fantastic for us.
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